drama drama drama it's amazing how much drama men can create amongst themselves

wowsers living with two men is hard. as anyone who knows me knows i live with two men right now, for a minute only, i hope. one is don who has been mentioned before in this blog because of his harshness and lack of tact. the other is my baby's dad, a nice guy for the most part but lazy and kinda of dumb and well in all reality the absolutely most emotionally immature 28 yr old man i have ever met. either way it just surprises me that they can create so much drama amongst themselves. it really can't be compared to anything i have ever experienced. there is just no way describe it accurately. the best i can do is say it's something like living with a Nazi and a Jew and i am the voice of reason here. i feel the USA in the midst of the world war, caught up here in all this drama not really sure why i'm here but feeling like i'm on the front lines for an unknown cause. the only difference is that i'm trying not to take either of their sides but am siding with the security and stability of my son. neither lance nor don is really liking this idea but what more can i do. i feel like the translator between the Chinese and the french and i'm the only person in the whole world who can speak both languages fluently. oi vay, i can't wait for aaron to get here, he will be here tomorrow. that will give me some reprieve i only hope that these two men can handle themselves respectfully and cautiously when left alone with each other. i think that don needs to just go find something to do to occupy himself and lance needs to think before he opens his big mouth. the problem with the two of them is that take everything so personally! and today's blow up was just a stupid miscommunication. lance wanted the keys to go unlock the car and don said it's unlocked and lance said i was just out there and the door was locked. so don wigged out about respect and called lance a punk and a bitch and then lance of course got all offended and pissed off about it. i told don he was lucky that lance was not a more ballsy or aggressive person otherwise that whole mess would have gone to blows in my living room and they both would have gotten their asses kicked by me. and of course had that happened don would be back in prison and lance would be in jail for assault or disturbing the peace or whatever cuz goodness knows things are never easy when people start in with violence. i think was a stupid thing altogether. Lance should have tried more than one car door, duh. But don should have been a lot less aggressive and taken it a lot less personally than he did. both of them were just being asses and i got dragged into it as always. i do so wish they were both better at communication and i didn't have hear about any of it. how nice the world would be if we could all just communicate coherently with one another.